How to be a better passenger: 9 habits every driver will appreciate

When it comes to road safety, most advice is aimed at drivers. But have you ever thought about the role passengers play?

Whether you're riding with a friend, family member, colleague or in a private-hire vehicle (PHV), being a considerate passenger can make every journey safer and more enjoyable. From avoiding unnecessary distractions to simply being respectful of someone else's car, the little things often make the biggest difference.

Here are nine habits every good passenger should practise.

Buckle up before the journey begins

This one's simple but important.

Always fasten your seat belt before the car starts moving, even if you're only travelling a short distance. Seat belts significantly reduce the risk of injury in an accident and are one of the easiest ways to protect yourself on the road.

It also saves the driver from having to remind you after they've already started driving.

Don't distract the driver

There's nothing wrong with having a conversation, but remember that the driver's attention should always be on the road.

Avoid showing them videos, asking them to look at something outside the window or waving your phone in front of them while they're driving. If it can wait until you've arrived, it probably should.

A calm and focused driver is a safer driver.

Don't pressure the driver

"We're going to be late!"

"Can you go a bit faster?"

Comments like these may seem harmless, but they can encourage drivers to rush, speed or take unnecessary risks.

If you're running late, it's better to accept the delay than pressure the driver into unsafe decisions. Arriving safely is always more important than arriving a few minutes earlier.

Don't be a backseat driver

"Brake!"

"You're too close."

"You should've taken the other exit."

Unless there's an immediate safety concern, constant commentary can make the driver feel stressed or distracted. Trust the person behind the wheel to make their own decisions and only speak up if it's genuinely necessary.

Be ready before the driver arrives

Whether it's your friend picking you up or your PHV driver waiting downstairs, try to be ready when they arrive.

Making someone wait while you "just grab one more thing" or finish getting ready isn't the best way to start a journey. A little punctuality shows respect for the driver's time.

Don't slam the doors

Most modern car doors don't require much force to close properly.

Slamming the door can be frustrating for car owners and may cause unnecessary wear over time. A gentle but firm push is usually all it takes.

It's a small gesture that many drivers quietly appreciate.

Check before opening the door

Before stepping out, always look for cyclists, motorcyclists and passing vehicles.

Opening a car door without checking can lead to serious accidents, especially on busy roads. One useful habit is the Dutch Reach, when opening the door with your hand furthest from it, which naturally encourages you to turn and check your surroundings before getting out.

It only takes a second and could prevent an accident.

Keep the car clean

Treat someone else's car the same way you'd like them to treat yours.

Avoid leaving behind rubbish, muddy footprints or food crumbs, and be extra careful with drinks that could spill. If you do accidentally make a mess, offering to clean it up goes a long way.

A clean car is a happy car.

Say thank you

Sometimes, the simplest gesture means the most.

Whether it's a quick lift to the MRT station, a long road trip or a PHV ride home after work, a genuine "thank you" is always appreciated.

If you've had a particularly pleasant PHV journey, leaving a five-star rating and a kind review is another great way to show your appreciation. 

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is it important not to distract the driver?

Distractions can take the driver's attention away from the road, increasing the risk of accidents. Keeping interruptions to a minimum helps everyone stay safe.

Is it okay to tell the driver how to drive?

If there's an immediate safety concern, it's appropriate to speak up calmly. Otherwise, avoid unnecessary criticism or constant instructions that may distract the driver.

Why shouldn't I slam the car door?

Modern car doors are designed to close securely without excessive force. Slamming them can be frustrating for the owner and may contribute to unnecessary wear over time.

What is the Dutch Reach?

The Dutch Reach is a method of opening a car door using the hand furthest from the door. This encourages you to turn your body and check for cyclists, motorcyclists and other road users before opening it.

What's the easiest way to be a better passenger?

Be respectful. Buckle up, avoid distracting the driver, keep the car clean, be punctual and always show appreciation for the ride.

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